Monsignor Pope on 'Fiducia Supplicans' blessings: "I must therefore decline to offer them."

Holy Comforter-Saint Cyprian Church

A Message from Msgr. Pope

December 21, 2023

 

Dear Parishioners, 

 

I have received a number of calls and emails from parishioners seeking to understand a declaration released Monday by the Vatican entitled Fiducia Supplicans (Supplicating Trust). It is widely reported that the document permits a priest to bless same-sex couples. Some even see it as an approval of same-sex marriage. It is not.

 

The declaration in no way authorizes same-sex marriage.  In fact, it explicitly re-affirms the Church's teaching that marriage is only between a man and a woman, and that sexual relations are only moral within marriage (declaration paragraph #s 4-6).  

 

The document does say that there may be times when people who are living in objectively sinful ways, such as cohabitation or homosexual relationships, could receive a kind of informal blessing in no way resembling the Rite of Marriage. However, the document also states that these informal blessings should only be given if there is no risk of causing confusion about the Church's doctrine on sexual morality, including the nature of marriage (#s 4,5,30, 39). 

 

On the whole then, the Vatican document does not change the Church's doctrine on sexual morality or the sacrament of matrimony. It sets tight limits on any informal blessings so that they do not contradict the truth about the true nature of what God teaches about marriage and human sexuality. 

 

As your Pastor, I want to say that this declaration requires no changes at our parish and that there will not be the conferring of informal blessings here for relationships of couples in irregular unions. I say this because, in the discernment I am required to make as pastor, (see # 25, 37, 41), I think the blessings of such unions would, in fact, lead to confusion and scandal among the faithful regarding the Church’s teachings on marriage and sexuality. (see also # 30)

 

Having thus made this discernment and decision required of me, I ask your understanding and prayers, realizing that I have as my duty the care of all souls here and the duty to protect the faithful from confusion or error that would likely come from conferring such blessings. I must therefore decline to offer them. 

 

Yours in Christ, 

 

Rev. Msgr. Charles Pope

Pastor